Openly Dating Two Women (pseudo story)

It's all about how your frame it, making her feel secure, and showing how it benefits her. Now it's time to go find a woman that I think fit

So I've been seeing someone for quite awhile now, and have been giving a lot of thought about my relationships with women. In short, it is incredibly difficult for me to be with just one woman, so I've been playing around with the idea of starting a three way relationship with two bi-sexual women. The woman I'm seeing right now is bi-sexual, but has always had a problem with me and other women.

Now, I know that there are a few of you that are actually really good players, have no trouble attracting women, but can't get your girlfriend to open up to the idea of bringing a  second woman into the relationship . And that's what this post is about. I'll give a brief rundown on how to get your girlfriend to open up to the idea of bringing in a second woman.

As I already said in my post at  Loveawake  dating site blog about easy threesomes, it's best that you already start with a bi-sexual woman. And from there, at the very beginning of your relationship, what you want to do, is immediately play around with the idea of maybe having a threesome. As I've stated before, you don't want to do it with an "Oh baby!" attitude, but more of a calm, relaxed, "I've been here before" attitude. If she's bi-sexual, she should at least be open to the threesome idea.

Once you're sure that she's pretty comfortable with that and you two actually have real feelings for each other, you want to spend a few weeks making her feel really secure with both you, and her self. You need to constantly tell her how beautiful she is, tell her that you'll never leave her for another girl, and how much she means to you. Do this for awhile, and she's going to start to feel really secure about herself. If you try discussing bringing a woman into your actual relationship before this, then she's going to fight it every step of the way because she'll be worried about you leaving her for the second girl.

Alright, so you've done this. Now it's time for the actual talk. Instead of explaining, I think I'll just post the conversation I had with my girl today...

Me: "I wanna ask you something, and actually think about it before you respond."

Her: "What?"

Me: "I got to thinking, you like girls, right?'

Her: "Yes, why?"

Me: "What do you think about the idea of bringing another girl into our relationship?"

Her: "Polyamorous dating? Like the Mormons?"

Me: "Don't use big words with me. Think about it. There are things a woman can do for you that I can't. It'd be like you getting the best of both worlds, and we'd never have to worry about your bi-sexuality leading you to cheating on me with a woman."

Her: "So bring in a girl that's going to fuck you too?"

Me: "I'm not really into threesomes."

Her: "But what if you end up liking her more than me and she takes you away from me?"

I start rubbing her leg...

Me: "You'll never have to worry about that. You're everything I could ever want in a woman. No one could possibly take me away from you."

I spend some more time reassuring her...

Her: "But what if she loves your dick and doesn't want me?"

Me: "I've seen how you have women sprung; you know what you're doing in bed. And look at you, you're drop dead gorgeous."

She thinks some more. I stay relaxed, rubbing her leg some more...

Me: "It works out for you; you get the best of both worlds."

And she gives me a great big kiss, tells me how much she loves me, and how she wants to have her first threesome with me. I have just worked out an arrangement that solves both her bi-sexuality, and my need to have more than one woman. It's all about how your frame it, making her feel secure, and showing how it benefits her. Now it's time to go find a woman that I think fits both of us.