Chains of Fires

LGBTQ+ History in Mill Valley

With over 100 years of history, Mill Valley's LGBTQ+ community widely contributed to the growth of Marin's culture, and the increasing recognition of queerness can be directly traced to the stories featured in this exhibit. Pillars of the Bay Area art world, grassroots collectives, and lifesaving organizations all found a home in Mill Valley, and our current celebratory moment has roots in generations of activists and liberation movements. These successes were not without struggles, though, as these individuals faced ostracization, suppression, and, in some instances, criminalization, providing us the tools to craft a more inclusive tomorrow.

The LGBTQ+ community has been overlooked in conversations and writings about Mill Valley’s history. Perhaps due to this specter of discrimination, close-knit communities formed to act as support systems or safe spaces for those that might otherwise feel unloved. Together, these communities flourished into a vivacious subculture of artists, poets, and activists. From Elsa Gidlow in Druid Heights to the Marin Flag Project, these communities are featured throughout this exhibition – the first of its kind to celebrate and examine Mill Valley’s LGBTQ+ history.

Over the last century, hard-won progress has reached unimagined heights of compassionate understanding and visibility. Where once a gay person might have lived their entire life “in the closet,” unable to pursue their truth, new generations are encouraged to explore their identity. The Lucretia Little History Room proudly celebrates Mill Valley’s LGBTQ+ history, its current communities, and our promising future. Inspired by Elsa Gidlow’s poem, “Chains of Fires,” this exhibit journeys through the community’s growth from an open secret into progressive action.


Ada and Lillian, Under the Stars

Ada Clement (1878 – 1952) and Lillian Hodghead (1886 – 1972) shared a home and life together in Mill Valley in the early 1900s. They cofounded the San Francisco Conservatory of Music and regularly enjoyed long hikes around their home.

Click on the arrow to learn more about their life together.

Text from Ada Clement’s memoir, courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.

At a time when homosexuality was intensely persecuted, their status as "close friends" reveals the secrecy demanded of many LGBTQ+ relationships.

Sources close to the couple confirmed the romantic nature of their friendship, and we are proud to celebrate their love in this exhibition.


Elsa Gidlow: Poet-Warrior

Author of the first “out,” complete-life lesbian autobiography and America's first book of lesbian love poetry, Elsa Gidlow (1898 – 1986) co-founded Druid Heights, a countercultural hub in Mill Valley. Her legacy continues to inspire new generations of artists and community builders to pursue spiritual fulfilment and trueness to oneself. Continue scrolling to learn more about Gidlow and her impact.

A deep connection to nature and spirituality informed Gidlow's life and work.

Gidlow cultivated a progressive environment, described by feminist librarian and editor Celeste West as a "Lesbian Avalon."

Spellbound by Marin's beauty, Gidlow led the foundation of Druid Heights, an "unintentional community" deep in Muir Woods.

For decades, Gidlow cultivated her garden and drew together scores of young, queer folk in search of the "Poet of the Mists."

Here, Gidlow embraces her longtime partner Isabel Quallo. The pair bonded over green thumbs and stimulating conversations.

Gidlow celebrates her published autobiography Elsa, I Come with My Songs with editor Celeste West and photographer Marcelina Martin.

Gidlow inspires us as a fierce truthteller committed to community building and consciousness raising.

The Mill Valley Public Library proudly preserves many of Gidlow’s published writings and encourages you to explore her words through our collection.

From  Makings for Meditation , available in the Lucretia Little History Room for in-library viewing.

In 1940, Gidlow initiated a winter solstice tradition: saving a piece of burnt wood from the ashes to become the “seed” to light her solstice fire the following year. Over time, she shared the ritual, linking her initial spark to hundreds of hearths over the years. Every winter solstice, Mill Valley residents and LGBTQ+ members honor Gidlow by kindling fire. In this way, she embodies history as a catalyst for the future and a foundation for community.


Margo St. James, COYOTE of the Woods

Influential activist Margo St. James (1937 – 2021) drew inspiration from Elsa Gidlow and her time in Mill Valley's Druid Heights. St. James advocated and fervently fought for oft-marginalized identities.

St. James founded COYOTE (Call Off Your Tired Old Ethics), an organization dedicated to uplifting and protecting sex workers. In addition to a life of advocacy for communities across the gender and sexuality spectrum, she also collaborated with legendary Bay Area filmmaker James Broughton. Courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.


James Broughton’s Big Joy

Crowned the “unofficial poet laureate of San Francisco” by Alan Watts, and an early supporter of Bay Area experimental film, James Broughton “followed his own weird” deep into the woods of Mill Valley. Scroll to learn more about Broughton and his work.

The inaugural program of the inaugural Mill Valley Film Festival kicked off with a celebratory tribute to James Broughton. His most notable film would perhaps be 1968’s The Bed, filmed in Mill Valley, and which momentously encapsulated the emerging sexual freedom of 1960s counterculture. 

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room Pamphlet File Collection.

Broughton's 1972 film Dreamwood journeys through the mystical woods of Marin County and features Margo St. James.

A self-described “bisexual androgyne,” Broughton lived a life of love unburdened by heteronormativity, serving as a role model for the LGBTQ+ community in the Bay Area and beyond.

Image Courtesy of San Francisco Public Library LGBTQ+ Center.

Many of Broughton's poems can be found in Mill Valley Public Library's Local Author Collection housed in the History Room, and his films can be found at the library in a  DVD box set. 


Seeing Gloria Churchman

Barbara Hammer, "Gloria Churchman’s Eye" (1975) Silver gelatin print, 4x6 inches

A talented artist, Gloria Churchman helped form what would become Mill Valley's  O'Hanlon Center for the Arts , and practiced illustration, painting, and ceramics inspired by Jungian dreamwork.

Churchman was a frequent muse and collaborator with legendary lesbian filmmaker Barbara Hammer. Together, they created the film Moon Goddess (1975), and Churchman's presence can be felt throughout Hammer's work from this time.


Bois Burk: Beauty in the Margins

Bois Burk (1906 – 1993) was a Marin County native, Tam High graduate, and gay pioneer. Burk observed, cataloged, and participated in the emerging gay culture and modern gay rights movement. Click on the arrows to see Burk's images and learn more about his life.

San Francisco's 1971 Gay Pride Parade, captured by Bois Burk.

Courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.

In his autobiography preserved by the GLBT Historical Society, Burk laments a confusing early life of repression. Here we see his senior portrait in the 1924 Tamalpais High School yearbook, courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.

Later in life, Burk found community and confidence to more freely express his love.

Through Burk's lifetime, cultural acceptance of queerness and same-sex love flourished, and we can thank early figures like him for contributing to this progress.


The Dances of Russell Hartley

As a young artist, Russell Hartley (1924 – 1983) designed window displays for his family's hardware store and caught the eye of Ruby Asquith, a dance instructor for the Mill Valley Outdoor Club. At Asquith's invitation, he became involved with San Francisco Ballet, where he sketched rehearsing dancers, took ballet classes, performed onstage, and designed hundreds of costumes. As Hartley's professional career flourished, he also collected theatrical ephemera, eventually establishing the San Francisco Dance Archives in 1950, now housed at the  Museum of Performance + Design.  Tragically, Hartley passed away in 1983, one of many lost to the HIV/AIDS crisis.


The Spahr Center – A Legacy of Care

In 1982, Rev. Dr. Jane Spahr founded Ministry of Light (later named Spectrum), which launched the Marin AIDS Support Network to respond to the HIV/AIDS crisis. Today, the Spahr Center continues to provide programs and care for Marin County. They are dedicated to supporting the queer and HIV-affected communities through health resources, cultural events, and awareness training. Scroll to learn more about this fantastic resource doing meaningful work in Marin County.

Longstanding programs for senior members of the LGBTQ+ community encourage connection all across Marin.


The Slant

From the momentum of the gay liberation movements of the 1970s, social networks began to form across Marin County and Mill Valley, connecting a vibrant queer community together through grassroots activism and volunteer organizations. Scroll to continue reading about a few of these networks.

Published between 1990 and 1999, The Slant was a Marin County newspaper for and by the queer community that covered a wide range of topics. Before the Internet made connections just a click away, periodicals like The Slant were integral to creating spaces for safe expression and provided representation to many who may have had to otherwise hide their identity.

Courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.

This 1981 zine, a "Marin Gay & Lesbian Business Directory," demonstrates the importance of allied and gay-owned business to ensure safe, nondiscriminatory experiences. From landscape gardeners to dentists, these directories also gave Marin’s gay community an opportunity to advertise their vocation and support each other. 

Courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.


Marching with Joan Glassheim

Helping shape life in Marin through two decades of civic involvement as the County's Ombudsman along with countless cultural contributions such as participating in the 1993 March on Washington, Marin Gay Parades, and The Slant publications, Joan Glassheim exemplifies the collaborative leadership that built the LGBTQ+ movement into its momentous state today. Listen to  Joan's oral history interview  for wisdom on the significance of community and visibility.

As part of the Marin County contingent, Joan Glassheim and other members of the local LGBTQ+ community joined the 1993 March on Washington.

With an estimated size of 1 million people, the 1993 March is one of the largest protests in American History.

The ripples of this widely covered event energized people around the nation to organize and plan further community-focused action.

Glassheim (left) with her wife, Elizabeth Pearce, who initially felt unable to publicly join the Marin Gay Parade for fear of professional retribution.

Glassheim and Pearce were married on October 10, 1987 in front of the Internal Revenue Service building in Washington, D.C., as part of a mass wedding.

Many lifelong connections were made through the organization of these parades, and these photographs reveal a look into the significant power of grassroots community building.


Marin Gay Parade

Featuring scores of local leaders, organizations, and allies, the first Marin Gay Parade, held on June 17 th , 1990, provided an opportunity to celebrate Marin’s queer community.

This full-page spread from The Slant showcases notable figures in Marin County's queer community. Courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.

Video courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society, digitized by the Lucretia Little History Room.


Rula Planet's Galaxy Girls

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room Pamphlet Files Collection.

Started by Rula Planet, Galaxy Girls was a Marin-based troupe of drag queens that would perform across the Bay Area through the late 1990s and early 2000s. They would perform at bars such as New George’s and host Miss Gay Marin Pageants, where they would crown the year’s top queen. 

During the early days of digital media and online spaces, data could be lost in an instant with no physical permanence. Thankfully, resources like the Wayback Machine, hosted by the Internet Archive, provide snapshots of now-defunct websites, allowing us to  explore the Galaxy Girls’ universe  and learn of a thriving drag community proudly centered in Marin County.


Jane Futcher's World of Words

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.

Local author and regular contributor to The Slant, Jane Futcher has published multiple queer-centered novels including Crush -- an “underground lesbian classic" -- and Dream Lover. She won the California Newspaper Publishers Association awards for her work in the Marin Independent Journal.

Futcher currently lives with her wife in Sonoma County and is working on a collection of short stories.  Listen to Jane's Oral History interview for a great look into her journey as a lifelong writer. 

Futcher's 1981 travel book Marin: The Place, The People provides a terrific introduction to the wonders of Marin.

Throughout the book Futcher captures the remarkable variety of people, history, and natural beauty of Marin County.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.

Futcher (front, center) at a Women's Spirituality Group retreat in Sonoma, circa 1992. Writing was a significant component of this retreat and this group provided an encouraging framework for women to meet and discuss queerness with each other and through their written work.

Pictured: front, L-R: Sylvia Israel, Jane Futcher, Laura Wilensky; middle: Julie Beach; rear, L-R: Lisa Zimmerman, Jenny Ogier, Cheryl Goldberg.

Futcher, Mill Valley filmmaker Marcelina Martin, and spiritual environmentalist Hallie Iglehart Austen were among Elsa Gidlow's inner circle of spiritualists and creatives.

Rear (L-R): Elsa Gidlow, Jane Futcher, Marcelina Martin, and Hallie Iglehart Austen. Front: Barbara Fisher. Pictured at Elsa Gidlow's home in Druid Heights, circa 1982.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.

Connections made from Gidlow's Druid Heights continue on today, further exemplifying the longstanding significance of communal gathering spaces.

L-R: Jane Futcher, Hallie Iglehart Austen, unknown, Elsa Gidlow, Marcelina Martin, and unknown. Photo taken at Elsa Gidlow's home in Druid Heights, Muir Woods, circa 1983.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.


Bob Harmon and the Triumph of Civil Liberties

A longtime advocate for marriage equality, gay rights, and civil liberties, longtime Mill Valley resident Bob Harmon exemplifies the ability of an individual to enact great change. Click on the arrows to read more about Harmon and listen to his  oral history interview , accessible via the Mill Valley Public Library.

Brochure from Harmon's 1999 City Council bid. Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room Pamphlet File Collection.

From penning anti-discrimination ordinances and domestic partnership laws, to lobbying Congress against harmful regulations on gays in the military, Harmon courageously commits to empowering communities on all levels.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room Pamphlet File Collection.

Harmon currently serves as President of the Community Church of Mill Valley and is on the Board of Directors of The Redwoods senior living facility.


Redwood Activists: Suzanne C. Gary and Laura Bock

(Left) A poem Suzanne wrote for Laura; (Right) Laura and Suzanne. Image courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.

A feminist poet, Suzanne C. Gary (1961 – 2019) confronted patriarchy as part of the women's movement and, as an Artist in Residence at Mill Valley's The Redwoods, fostered a poetry group that continues to thrive.

A socialist activist, Laura Bock raised consciousness for the intersections of gender, sexuality, and disability rights, and passionately grows communities that provide crucial support. Bock and her partner Gary moved to The Redwoods, where Bock organizes Women's History Month events and continues her advocacy to this day.

 


Community Church of Mill Valley

With a history almost as old as Mill Valley itself, the  Community Church  proudly interweaves social activism and spiritual practice.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.

CCMV was often cited by The Slant as a safe and welcoming gathering place for congregants across the sexuality spectrum, and today defines itself as a “small and vibrant, open and affirming, progressive Christian Church.”


Marin Flag Project – Waves of a New Generation

To celebrate Pride Month in 2020, Redwood High student Caroline Goodrich flew a Pride Flag over Sir Francis Drake Boulevard.

The flag was cut down five times and Goodrich (pictured) replaced it each time.

In 2021, Goodrich founded the  Marin Flag Project  "to increase visibility and inclusion in Marin" by partnering with local businesses and community members to display Pride flags across the county.

Since its founding, the Marin Flag Project has distributed over 1,000 flags and flyers around the County.  Listen to Goodrich's oral history  to learn more about the MFP and her experiences growing up in Marin County.


Current Communities

Marriage equality and an expanded awareness of the gender spectrum brings even more light to Mill Valley. Together, we kindle the linked fires of history. Click on the arrows to access a few of the oral history interviews conducted by the Mill Valley Public Library in an effort to celebrate and preserve our local LGBTQ+ community. We are encouraging more individuals to share their story and help grow the tapestry of the local queer community.

If you would like to share your story, please contact Benja Thompson at bthompson@cityofmillvalley.org to schedule an interview session.

At Tamalpais High School, students of the Gender Sexuality Alliance create safe spaces for young folk and organize fundraising efforts.  Listen to their group interview  to hear about the perspective of a new generation. Pictured L-R: Jess Lester, Laila Campbell, Christopher O'Hara-Hay, Adrian Garcia

Married couple  Sally Kuhlman and Celia Graterol  celebrate a Pride event as a family. Image courtesy of Kuhlman and Graterol.

Kuhlman and Graterol exploring the Golden Gate National Recreation Area.

Artist  Artemis Frederick  (right) explores their identity through many forms of expression. Images courtesy of Frederick.

 Glenda Sharp  enjoys planning hikes throughout Marin County's beautiful trails. Image courtesy of Sharp.

Credits and Thanks

GLBT Historical Society

San Francisco Public Library LGBTQ+ Center

Old Stage Studios

Isaac Fellman

Artemis Frederick

Jane Futcher

Caroline Goodrich

Celia Graterol

Bob Harmon

Sally Kuhlman

Glenda Sharp

Hallie Iglehart Austen

Louky Keijsers Koning

Florrie Burke

Marilyn Geary

Joan Glassheim

From  Makings for Meditation , available in the Lucretia Little History Room for in-library viewing.

St. James founded COYOTE (Call Off Your Tired Old Ethics), an organization dedicated to uplifting and protecting sex workers. In addition to a life of advocacy for communities across the gender and sexuality spectrum, she also collaborated with legendary Bay Area filmmaker James Broughton. Courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.

Barbara Hammer, "Gloria Churchman’s Eye" (1975) Silver gelatin print, 4x6 inches

This full-page spread from The Slant showcases notable figures in Marin County's queer community. Courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room Pamphlet Files Collection.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.

(Left) A poem Suzanne wrote for Laura; (Right) Laura and Suzanne. Image courtesy of the GLBT Historical Society.

Courtesy of the Lucretia Little History Room.