The Life and Times of Elijah Sikes, Gravestone Carver

The tale of one stone carver, four states, and an adaption to changing tastes.

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South Cemetery, Belchertown, Hampshire County, Massachusetts

Born on January 5th, 1772 to Joseph and Eunice (Smith) Sikes in Belchertown, Hampshire County, Massachusetts; from a young age Elijah was undoubtedly familiar with the stone carving trade, as his father, Joseph, was Belchertown's eminent gravestone carver. At only 20 years old in 1792, he carved his first stone, for Hannah Dwight at the South Cemetery in Belchertown. Featuring a ghostly, spoon shaped "soul effigy," patterned off of those his father carved, it is flanked by two ornate rosettes and an uncommonly shaped tympanum decorated with geometric shapes. The stone has square routed boarders, and a wonderful epitaph which reads as follows: "With heartfelt joy I yield my breath And quit a life of pain and woes Rejoicing past the scene of death To live where joy forever flows New transport now inspire my frame With joys celestial and sublime O may you catch that heavenly flame And soar beyond the reach of time" Elijah was apparently proud of this stone, as below the epitaph but just above the boarder, he signed his work: "E.S."  

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Chester Center Cemetery, Chester, Hampshire County, Massachusetts

The small hamlet of Chester was the first place Elijah Sikes is listed as living independently when he married Lucretia Anderson on April 10  th  , 1794. The town burying ground, across from the First Congregational Church where the two were married at, has many examples of Sikes stones, dated between 1767 (backdated) and 1816. The wide range of stones show the progression of his work, from the haunting spoon shaped “soul effigies” borrowed from his stone carving father (Samuel Elder, 1791; pictured in header) to Neoclassical urns featuring willow like vegetation (Children of James and Polly Bell, 1803/4), which’d form the basic basis of his work for the rest of his career.

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South Cemetery, Brooklyn Windham County, Connecticut

If we’re going by census records, Elijah Sikes never lived in Connecticut. However, his stones tell a different story. From 1755 (backdated) through 1790, over 100 stones by him dot cemeteries throughout Connecticut, mainly in Windham County. Among the most ornately carved stones by him in this area is that of Capt. Benjamin Pierce, his wife, and five children at the South Cemetery in Brooklyn, which features individual soul effigies for each centered below a large rosette. It is important to note that there is some dispute among gravestone scholars as to whether or not Elijah himself carved the Connecticut stones or not, partially due to the fact he himself did not reside in Windham County, and the presence of lesser quality markers among his work in this area. It is quite possible the Windham County contingent of stones was carved by another, yet to be unidentified member of the Sikes family.

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Eastman Cemetery, Chester, Hampshire County, Massachusetts

Located “up the hill” from the Chester Village Cemetery, it is here that Elijah Sikes’ first child, Sophia, takes her repose at. Passing away at just three months old in March, 1795, she is buried near the graves of her maternal grandparents, Archelaus and Sarah (Webber) Anderson. who take their repose beneath one of Elijah's grand monuments. Featuring one of his trademark soul effigies flanked by rosettes, above is inscribed the phrase "REMEMBER DEATH" --- a sentiment that'd make occasional appearances on Sikes stones in both New England and the Great Lakes region alike.

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Fairmount Cemetery, Lee, Berkshire County, Massachusetts

By 1800, Elijah was residing in Lenox, Berkshire County, although for reasons unknown, his work is not well represented at the Church on the Hill Cemetery there. For an accurate survey of his work during this time, we will have to go to Lee, four miles to the south. At Fairmount Cemetery, Sikes is very well represented. Working in marble, stones such as those for Matty Hendy (1773, backdated) and the Foote children (1793) represent his output during this era.

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Maple Hill Cemetery, Dorset, Bennington County, Vermont

In 1805, Elijah Sikes relocated to Dorset, Bennington County Vermont, an area rich in marble carving and quarrying. Continuing to carve and erect stones for the area’s deceased, as well as open a quarry on Mount Aeolus in 1808, his work underwent a significant transformation during this era. Going from a self-taught folk carver to a true craftsman, it appears during this era he emulated the designs of Bennington County carvers, incorporating pot-shaped urns, overarching willows, routed panels, oval inscription frames, and twining vines all commonly seen in this region’s carving repertoire. Perhaps Sikes’ most well-known stone during his time in Vermont is that of Dr. Jonathan Blackmer (1813), which features double pot-shaped urns (with tassels), Federal style columns, rosettes, routed inscription panels, Masonic imagery, and an open book featuring Genesis 3:19. Interestingly, this marker is one of the few by him that is signed, being “E. Sikes," although the signature appears on the footstone. Of note is the phrase "they go down to their graves ere return no more," located at the bottom of the headstone, possibly a corruption of Job 7:9, also featured on the stone of Edward Burton in Brookfield, Ohio on an open book motif.

 

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Center Cemetery, Chesterfield, Hampshire County, Massachusetts

By the mid 1810s, Elijah Sikes was back in Massachusetts. Settled in Norwich (now Huntington), Hampden County, near his old home of Chester, he continued to carve in the “new” style he picked up in Vermont. At the Center Cemetery in Chesterfield, a signed stone by Sikes exists, for Martha Taylor (1816). This would be the last place in Massachusetts Elijah Sikes would reside at before his removal to Ohio.

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Pine Grove Cemetery, Warren, Worcester County, Massachusetts

It is unknown exactly when Elijah Sikes, his wife, and three children departed for Brookfield, Trumbull County, Ohio, however according to gravestone scholar Derek Strahan, it was likely after the carving of Mathew Patrick's stone at Pine Grove Cemetery in Warren. Passing away at the age of 89 in April, 1827, Strahan states while "there is no solid evidence of exactly when Sikes left New England, the existence of this stone indicates he was still here as late as 1827." Based upon his findings, this is the latest dated Sikes stone in New England, carved "within less than a year of his departure for Ohio." The stone, carved from brownstone, is not that different from what Sikes would carve in Ohio, featuring double willows, fans, and notched corners, although an atypical large urn and diamond inscription panel.

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Brookfield Center Cemetery, Brookfield, Trumbull County; Ohio

Sometime in late 1827, Elijah Sikes and his family relocated to Brookfield Township, Trumbull County, Ohio on the Connecticut Western Reserve. Traveling some 530 miles, the trip likely took upwards of six weeks, based upon the accounts of other settlers. Once in Brookfield, Sikes immediately set to work carving. At the Center Cemetery in Brookfield, 10 stones by Sikes exist, with a particularly notable one being for young Edward Burton (1828), featuring a broken column, blooming flower, hourglass, ornate urn, drapery with tassels, detailed willow, and an open book motif featuring the phase ""they go down to their graves ere return no more," possibly a corruption of Job 7:9. Other honorable mentions include the stones of Levi Giddings, his second wife's first husband (d. 1823, backdated) with it's singular willow set into a "cameo" frame, a common budget style for Sikes, Emaline Hart Caldwall (1828) with an urn flanked by two scalloped fans, and John Beers (also 1828) with its double willows and tasseled urn. Sadly, on October 12 th , 1829, Lucretia Sikes passed away at the age of 55. Buried at the Center Cemetery, for reasons unknown, she did not get a stone carved by her husband. On January 7 th , 1831, Sikes remarried to Clarissa Giddings, a former native of Hartford County, Connecticut.

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Old Kingsville Corners Cemetery, Kingsville Township, Ashtabula, Ohio

Once settled in Brookfield, Sikes continued to work at his trade, with his greatest output of work seeming to come between 1828-1832. With this being said, almost every old cemetery throughout Northeast Ohio has at least one Sikes stone, however none can compare to those at Old Kingsville Corners off of Route 84 in Ashtabula County. While there aren’t particularly many here, a few are quite notable, namely Almerin Gillett (1828) with its open book motif featuring Genesis 3:19 (as seen on the Blackmer stone in Vermont), Carissa Wyman (1828) with its draped urn and lengthy epitaph, and Betsey Cook (1829) with an obelisk and three willows.

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Neshannock Presbyterian Cemetery, New Wilmington, Lawrence County, Pennsylvania

Although Sikes predominately carved in a refined Neoclassical style, hints of his upbringing as a folk carver in Massachusetts and Connecticut still occasionally shown through. Such is the case of the stone of Jane McConnell (d. 1829), in the Neshannock Cemetery in New Wilmington, Lawrence County, Pennsylvania with it's rosettes similar to those carved on the Hannah Dwight stone back in 1792 and the herald of "REMEMBER DEATH" as seen upon the grave of Sikes' in-laws, Archelaus and Sarah Anderson.

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East Gustavus Cemetery, Gustavus Township, Trumbull County

Perhaps one of Elijah Sikes most interesting works is the stone of Frances Maria Buell, a 16 year old girl from Gustavus Township who on August 8th, 1832, was murdered by her stepfather Ira West Gardner. Later hanged on November 1st, 1833, Gardner became the first and only person to have ever been publicly executed in Trumbull County. Featuring a fountain-like willow and unconventional urn, this design was used only sparingly by Sikes. In 1985 the stone was removed to the Gustavus Township Hall for safekeeping while a replica was erected over her grave.

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Warner Road, Hartford Township, Trumbull County, Ohio

By 1840, Elijah had moved yet again, this time a short distance to Hartford, a mere township north. Settling on Lot 34 upon a slender tract of land divided by what is now Warner Road, this is the only reference we have to where Elijah Sikes actually resided at. By now, it is unknown if he was continuing to carve, however anecdotal evidence suggests he did so as late as 1842, and on the 1850 census, he lists himself as a “stonecutter,” although it is not known if he was referring to this as a current or former occupation.

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Brookfield Center Cemetery, Brookfield, Trumbull County, Ohio

On September 11 th , 1855, at 83 years old, the bells tolled for Elijah Sikes. Over 60 of which had been spent crafting wondrous monuments to deceased loved ones throughout Massachusetts, Connecticut, Vermont, Pennsylvania, New York, and Ohio.  Laid to rest alongside his first wife Lucretia, and in the same yard as many of his wonderful monuments, Elijah lays forgotten underneath a plain marble slab, carved by unknown hands. However, to those who know him, his work proceeds him; over 900 markers exist by him across six states, a testament to a life well lived.

                 


  Timeline of Elijah Sikes' Life 

Life Event: January 5th, 1772

Elijah Sikes is born in Belchertown, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, the second of six children born to Joseph and Eunice (Smith) Sikes. His father, Joseph, is Belchertown's gravestone carver

Life Event: 1792

Carves his first gravestone at only 20 years old, that of Hannah Dwight, buried at the South Cemetery in Belchertown

Life Event: April 10th, 1794

Marries his first wife, Lucretia Anderson in Chester, Hampshire County, Massachusetts.

Life Event: March 2nd, 1795

Sophia Sikes, Elijah and Lucretia Sikes' first child, passes away at the age of three months. She is buried at the Eastman Cemetery in Chester near her maternal grandparents, Archelaus and Sarah.

Stylistic Change: 1797-1800

Begins abandoning his previously favored soul effigies for crude Neoclassical willow and urns

Life Event: 1800

Listed as living in Lenox, Berkshire County, Massachusetts as per that year's Federal Census

Life Event: 1808

Opens a quarry on Mount Aeolus near Dorset, Bennington County, Vermont

Life Event: 1810

Listed as residing in Dorset, Bennington County, Vermont as per that year's Federal Census

Stylistic Change: 1810-1815

After modeling his work after the carvers of Bennington County, Sikes elevates himself to a refined Neoclassical sculptor.

Life Event: 1816

Based upon the presence of signed stones in the Huntington, Massachusetts area from this time; it is assumed Elijah returns there at sometime during this year

Life Event: 1820

Listed as residing in Norwich (Huntington), Massachusetts as per township tax lists. Additionally, he is mentioned as having mail at the Norwich post office in a "list of letters" published in the Hampshire Gazette, dated October 17th, 1821.

Life Event: Late 1827

Elijah, along with his wife Lucretia and three children depart for Brookfield, Trumbull County, Ohio during this time

Life Event: October 12th, 1829

Lucretia Sikes passes away at the age of 55 and is buried at the Brookfield Center Cemetery. Among the only newspaper references we have to the Sikeses is a "death notice" for Lucretia published in the Springfield Republican (Springfield, Massachusetts) dated December 9th, 1829.

Life Event: 1830

Listed as living in Brookfield, Township, Trumbull County, Ohio as per that year's Federal Census

Life Event: January 7th, 1831

Elijah marries a second time to Clarissa Elton Giddings, a native of Hartford County, Connecticut.

Life Event: 1840

Listed as residing in Hartford Township, Trumbull County, Ohio as per that year's Federal Census.

Life Event: 1840

According to the 1840 Hartford Township plat map, Sikes owned land along what is now Warner Road in the southwest corner of the township. This is the only recorded instance of we have of Sikes owning land.

Life Event: 1850

Listed as residing in Hartford Township, Trumbull County, Ohio as per that year's Federal Census. His occupation is listed as "stonecutter," however it is unknown if he was actively carving at this time or retired.

Life Event: September 11th, 1855

Elijah Sikes passes away at the age of 83 years. Burial takes place at the Brookfield Center Cemetery next to his first wife, Lucretia. In a cruel twist of fate, he is buried beneath a plain marble slab carved by unknown hands. In total, over 900 stones across six states have been attributed to him.

Information sourced from:

Drinkwater, Robert. “The Remarkable Career of Elijah Sikes".” New Association for Gravestone Studies Quarterly Newsletter 14, no. 2, 2010. 

“Public Member Trees,” database, Ancestry.com (accessed Dec. 3, 2024), “Sikes Family Tree” by Gavin Esposito,  profile for Elijah Sikes,  (1772-1855) d. Brookfield, Ohio  https://www.ancestry.com/family-tree/person/tree/198245535/person/112596737672/facts 

Strahan, Derek. "Gravestones of New England," "Gravestones by Elijah Sikes are a near ubiquitous feature...," Facebook.com, November 17th, 2024,  https://www.facebook.com/gravestonesofnewengland/photos/gravestones-by-elijah-sikes-are-a-near-ubiquitous-feature-in-historic-burying-gr/494199140299679/?_rdr 

Slater, James "The Colonial Burying Grounds of Eastern Connecticut and the Men Who Made Them, pp. 89-90

Trumbull County Records and Archives Office, "1840 Map of Hartford Township,"  http://www.archives.co.trumbull.oh.us/Maps%201840/HARTFORD.1840.pdf 

Waterfield, Marjorie. “‘Trail of Tombstones, Part 1.’” Ancestry Magazine 14, no. 4, July-August 1996. https://books.google.com/books?id=CJC0VRBblKEC&pg=PT28&dq=trail+of+tombstones+elijah+sikes&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjKvY2p6vOJAxVTjYkEHbcdCUEQ6AF6BAgJEAI#v=onepage&q=trail%20of%20tombstones%20elijah%20sikes&f=false. 

 Waterfield, Marjorie. “‘Trail of Tombstones, Part 2.’” Ancestry Magazine 14, no. 5, September 1996. https://books.google.com/books?id=bcXoYEuOVn8C&pg=PT35&dq=trail+of+tombstones+elijah+sikes&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjKvY2p6vOJAxVTjYkEHbcdCUEQ6AF6BAgEEAI#v=onepage&q=trail%20of%20tombstones%20elijah%20sikes&f=false. 

Photographs by

Gavin Esposito, Derek Strahan, Keegan Day, James Bianco (via FindAGrave)